Sitting here at work trying to get motivated but it's so hard after eating a big plate of spaghetti and meatballs but as always conversation during lunch with my co-workers are always very much entertaining. It went from, breaking up with their boyfriend to what happened on The Voice and although, I can't talk about either it's always funny and entertaining to listen to what other ppl go through and actually think, I'm not alone in this world.

iPhone Love

Loving the fact that I can now blog from my iPhone. I know I may be a little behind but what do you expect. The small things in life matter to me the most, like being able to express my day to day feelings and activities using my cell phone. Soon enough we'll just be able to think and ppl will know. Ok, maybe a little far fetched but you just never know what may happen in the future.

Already! Congrats! 

The Glue!?

I am the glue in my family. Yes, I am the one that rounds everyone up for Holidays and Birthdays. I force my brother and sister to go to my moms house and spend quality time with my parents. I force my brother and sister to give up some dough to buy my parents gifts on Holidays because if I didn't, who would? Sometimes it seems sad to me that I have to force this upon my siblings but geez, they I think should show as much and maybe even more appreciation that I show my parents. They are older. I am the baby in the family and 99% of the time, they treat me like if I was the oldest child in the family and I'm not.

Not fair.

You know what though, if this is the responsibility that was put on my shoulders then I'll live up to it and continue to be the glue that keeps my family together. Let's just hope I'm as super sticky and I hope I could be.


Well people, It's Thursday. Enjoy your day and plan for the weekend.

Rebound Relationships

Rebound Relationships is not the way to go if you are trying to forget about the love of your life.

Ladies and Gentlemen, that is a big "NO BUENO".

Don't do it. Stay away. It definitely doesn't help you get over the love of your life. I think it actually makes a bigger mess of your emotions. Not only are you already emotionally involved with the love of your life and not over the fact that it's over but you are building another emotional attachment to someone else. It will just lead to confusion and heart ache. Just don't do it. Give yourself time to get over the love of your life and figure out who you are after that and focus on getting your life together and getting over your ex before moving on to someone else. I think it will be much easier and much more fulfilling if you give yourself that time for you. Everyone needs a little "me" time and after a difficult break up from the love of your life is just a great time to do that.

So Ladies...I'm specifically talking to you because I know a lot of females that tend to do this. Stop trying to rush into another relationship to get over a ex. It's not letting you heal and your just making it more difficult.

Give yourself time!!!!!

Today

When I woke up today and listening to some Donnell Jones because of course thats what decided to come up on my Pandora, it reminded me of everything I am deprived of. Thats right, I am deprived of something right now in my life. It might not be my priority right now but it is something that I am deprived of.

Love, from a man that is not my dad.

That's right, the single life, is fun don't get me wrong but it's beginning to be a little too lonely for my liking. It's going to be two years since I've been in a relationship and although, I don't miss cleaning up after a man, or cooking for him or even catering to his every want. I do miss the warm touch of a man. I miss being kissed and of course the attention. Yeah, I do get men that hit on me and all that boring stuff that every girl in this world encounters but man, it's slim pickings out there. I have been on dates and stuff but geez, where are all the good men? normal men? Where are you? ::looking out to the distance::

I feel like, I'm living the What Meli doesnt want life? lol It seems like every guy that crosses my path, is exactly what I do want. So sad...so very sad. C'mon, this normal man that I'm suppose to be with, needs to cross my path soon. I'm getting tired of waiting around for this guy.

Droidddd

I am here and back thanks to my trusty Droid.